Why Hiring a Best Man Speech Writer is a Fantastic Idea
New clients often mention how cluttered the online speechwriting world is and how difficult it is to find a reputable writer with a proven track record.
It’s true. Like any industry, the speechwriting world is filled with charlatans. So much so that I wrote an article last year titled, “How to Find a Legitimate, Talented and Kickass Wedding Speechwriter in the Internet Wild West,” which has viewed more than half a million times. The article covers everything from how to judge writing quality to how to spot fake customer reviews.
So it was no surprise when a client mentioned the other day they had come across a UK-based speech site trying to attract clients with an article headlined, “Why Hiring a Best Man Speech Writer is a Terrible Idea.”
This is so silly and wrongheaded that I had to see it for myself. That’s when I discovered it’s a website that sells speech templates. Ah, of course! Now it all makes sense.
Talented speechwriters and fresh, original content are the enemies of “insert-groom-name-here” speech templates, which are generic and designed to be “one-size-fits-all.”
The only reason someone sells a generic template and discourages original speechwriting is because they can’t write an original speech. Period.
I’ve been down this road before with peddlers of $29.99 speech templates. So many times, in fact, that I wrote a piece titled, “The Death Knell of Wedding Speech Templates.”
Here’s a related article, “Beware of Clunker Wedding Speeches and Advice on Google and YouTube.”
Most important, see the client reviews below. You won’t get standing ovations and compliments like these with fill-in-the-blank speech templates. You’ll get eye rolls and impatient sighs.
A great speechwriter clarifies the years of thoughts, memories, feelings and experiences you have in your heart and head about the bride and groom. And the speechwriter then pulls out the essentials for your speech.
Like a journalist, the best speechwriters also capture your values, character, personality and voice in the speech. The result is a speech that is fun, warm, original and above all, authentic. It’s All You (and more).
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I've worked with Den on two speeches over the last year. First a eulogy for my grandpa and more recently on a maid of honor speech for my lifelong best friend. In both cases Den pulled things out of me in our 90-minute conversation that made the speeches so much bigger and better than I could have ever pulled off on my own. His process felt like a therapy session in the best of ways as he went deeper and deeper into my relationships with my grandpa and childhood friend. The speeches shocked everyone (in a good way) with funny stories but also a lot love plus things no one expected. I got a lot of compliments, especially at the wedding, and felt a little like a celeb. Thanks Den x 2. I'll be back.
I purchased the speech, coaching and book for my father of the bride speech. The speech and delivery help were excellent and far exceeded my expectations. The speech was a huge hit and I received a lot of compliments, including from people I didn't even know. A friend of my daughter asked if I could give the father of bride speech at her wedding! I loved it. The book also exceeded my expectations in its quality. My daughter and son-in-law loved it and was happy to see it on their bookshelf in its box when I visited recently. I highly recommend this service because Den delivers what he promises.
I worked with Den on a best man speech for my older brother. His process was very simple but very effective in organizing my memories and feelings to create a speech that was 100% unique to me. The speech and humor went over very well at the wedding and my brother was shocked, especially since he was giving me so much grief about how I was going to bomb at the wedding because of nervousness. But thanks to Den I killed it! Much appreciated.
Den, I cannot tell you how thankful I am for you and your skills. You amaze me with the speech you wrote after an hour-long phone conversation. The first time I read the speech I thought 'He nailed that.' The name of your business very much describes your talent and the product you produce. I followed your guidelines/recommendations to the 'tee' leading up to the wedding and could not have been more happy with the results. My daughter and her new husband were floored. I don't think they ever imagined I could have produced and delivered such a 'perfect' speech as they told me. I had to fess up and let them know you helped me, 99.5% your effort so, I just had to show up and speak. The guests at wedding were also complimentary, I don't know if that's usual, but they were sincere, and many jokingly asked if I could give their speeches for them. They too were let in on the little secret of my success! My daughter's wedding planner also took your contact information. I hope others come to you for assistance when they are in need. They will not be disappointed. Thank you for helping me get through what I viewed as an insurmountable task. You changed my perception of the speech from fear and anxiety to a process that was fun and actually relaxing. I will be forever grateful to and for you!
I was a little nervous about having to give the speech of a lifetime. Den set me up and captured the essense of what i wanted to say. All his tips and recommendations made me Nail It!!!! First rate experience
This is the third time I've worked with Den. And like before, my father speech went amazing! Not a dry eye in the house and lots of laughing. He also had a great recommendation on the father-daughter dance which went great! An unforgettable night all around.
I worked with Den on my best man speech for my brother and emailed this to him after receiving the first draft. The speech was easy to deliver and I got a ton of compliments starting with my brother and sister in law. If you need help Den is your guy. 'The first word that comes to mind is WOW! What a great speech, you captured things beautifully. It already feels very comfortable, and my confidence is strong. The edits will be minor, mostly just adding a few names. I am so happy that I reached out to you and thank you so much as I could not be more impressed.'
Den helped craft my father of the groom speech at my son's wedding last October. I had previously engaged Den to help with my father of the bride speech at my daughter's wedding. In both cases, Den knocked it out of the park. Not only is he a very talented speech writer, but he made it a point to take the time to get to know me so that each speech reflected MY OWN words and thoughts. Den also did a wonderful job of preparing me to deliver my speeches. I would never claim to be a great public speaker, but when I stood up and took the mike at both weddings, I was totally calm and confident and it showed in my delivery. Simply put, Den is the real deal.
Den delivered a lot more than I expected. His process helped bring out memories and other things I had forgotten or would have overlooked. Throughout our work together he truly cared about putting something together that was unique and fit my personality and relationship with the bride and groom. Then his delivery tips helped me 'nail it' in front of 300 people! It was all easier than I thought it would be. I highly recommend Den's service and will definitely return for my next speech.
The speech was another huge hit! My kids and all the guests loved it! The bit at the end was totally unexpected and blew everyone way. I swear the laughter went on for a full minute. Thanks again for another life changing speech! Until next time, Den. Thank you.